Tuesday, 11 March 2014

On A Personal Note

While this blog is almost exclusively about music, I have chosen this time to post something of a personal nature. If you think it might help someone you know, pass it on. If it helps you, that pleases me greatly. I share this humbly and with respect.
- Graham

A Carer's Story

When someone is struck down by an illness, injury or other unfortunate occurrence, the consequences almost always have a ripple effect on those around them - partners, family and friends all feel the effects of the disease or injury, and struggle to adjust along with their friend, partner or family member who has been afflicted. The closer the relationship, the keener the empathy, and it is never easy. In June of 2013 my wife, best friend and life partner Donna was diagnosed with MS - Multiple Sclerosis. That news changed our lives. Donna had to come to grips with the fact that she now faced dealing with a condition that would be with her for life (the current medical understanding), and I had to come to grips with the same thing - after all, she was my soul mate, and what one faced, so faced the other. The journey is not an easy one, and it is one faced by people all over the world every day. Each situation is different, each story unique. This is my story.

Donna's diagnosis came as a real body blow. The first symptom that presented itself was optic neuritis - an infammation of the optic nerve that impairs vision. Optic neuritis can present as a separate condition, so we were hoping for the best until the scan results came back showing brain lesions. At that point, we were told that it was MS. Even then, the real import of the diagnosis took a while to sink in, while Donna spent four days in hospital on IV steroids to bring down the inflammation, and I sat at home in between hospital trips to try and get my head and heart around what was happening. I was grateful that those four days were busy ones spent running between hospitals (my mother-in-law was in a different hospital at the time), as any quiet time alone rapidly descended into subdued panic. What was happening to my wife? Why her? Why us? What would I do if... by the time of the official diagnosis, we had both studied MS thoroughly and understood as much as was possible about the disease. Nothing I had read prepared me for the gut-wrenching reality of facing down a threat to my wife that I was powerless to fight.

A full-time carer faces many challenges, and when the carer is the spouse of the person being cared for, everything is magnified tenfold. The feelings and emotions are many and intense in any case, but caring for your own wife is at once a joy and a terror. While I never once begrudged my new role, I had to continually deal with my own inner turmoil and demons whilst performing my duties as carer and my life as husband. I know that I am not alone in my experience, but there were times when I felt like the only person in the world who had felt such loss or despair. Sometimes the head and the heart work on two entirely separate agendas, and that's part of being human. After the initial shock and adjustment came a form of grieving, then anger. I was angry that my life had been changed without my permission, furious that something had been taken from me without notice. I wanted to punish whatever had hurt my Donna, but there was nothing there to fight against, nothing to destroy. This led to feelings of impotence and helplessness, of failure as both a man and a husband. As strange as it may sound, there were also feelings of recrimination - if I had been a better husband, maybe she wouldn't be sick. Had I cared more, perhaps Donna's brain might not be marred by lesions now. I also felt sorry for myself, wallowing in self-pity over the loss to my nice, comfortable world. Recognising this in myself brought on feelings of sickening guilt that made the earlier recriminations look like narcissism. I truly loathed those feelings, and felt unworthy of such a strong, brave wife. I was a failure. A weak, stupid failure. It was around that time that it would have been very beneficial for me to be told that all the things I was going/putting myself through were perfectly normal, that I was not alone, and that it was okay to ask for help. Most major cities have a support organisation for carers, and sometimes it is a big help just to know they are there. When needed and utilised, they can help save sanity and lives. There are some things that just can't be faced alone, and I was dumb to try. Fortunately, I woke up in time, and as of this writing am seeking help.

Donna's MS was relatively mild compared to some cases - there were lesions on her brain but not her spine, so at least her ambulatory functions were pretty fine. What we do have to deal with apart from the vision issues are pain, cramping, severe fatigue, vertigo, mental 'fuzziness' and sensory overload if there were too many audio and visual stimuli, meaning trips to shopping centres and crowded places were out. I should mention at this point that Donna is a particularly gifted singer and entertainer who has performed around the world to never-less-than-stellar reviews. Watching Donna go from holding an audience in the palm of her hand to not being comfortable with a crowd broke my heart, especially since I had proudly stood on stage with her for so many of those times when she held a crowd spellbound. The big thing that we had in our favour in our journey to remission was Donna's enormous willpower and strength of spirit, which still stands me in awe. She decided early on that she was not going to succumb to MS, but would fight to regain as much of her life as was possible. Her courage inspired me, and continues to do so. We also decided not to go with any of the various drugs that were available, opting instead for an array of alternative treatments including vitamin and mineral supplements, better diet, light exercise when possible, and - very importantly - a positive outlook. Donna has put me to shame in this last respect, kicking her symptoms to the kerb for a day to record vocal tracks for a music EP, managing the energy to be a loving grandmother on a good day, and still - still - giving her husband love and words of encouragement when he was feeling tired or flat. With the help of many friends and family members, we are achieving a new balance, finding a new normal, and hunkering down to fight off the menace while doing what we can to help raise MS awareness and ultimately find a cure. Plans have been made for music projects that are both flexible and low-stress, and we are blessed with a loving and tight-knit network of people who are determined to not see Donna fall as I am. We are not done, we are not beaten, we will endure, and we will triumph. I believe this because the bravest, most beautiful woman I know taught me to.


Thursday, 6 March 2014

Doing For Yourself

When you play on a recording session, a lot of factors are under the control of other people - the producer, the songwriter, whoever is in charge of the project. When working for yourself, there are no such restrictions, and anything goes. With this freedom, however, comes responsibility.

Apart from co-writing lyrics and melodies with my wife Donna, most of my composing is done alone. I find an idea that could be turned into a full-blown piece of music, and work on it until I have something I'm happy with. Sometimes it will be a melody or riff that I add to, sometimes a chord progression or even something on another instrument. On other occasions, however, an idea for a song will come bursting into my mind with all parts complete, ready to go. When this happens, the race is on to get all the bits recorded as a demo before I forget the song. As I have a system that I am pretty fast and efficient at when putting stuff down, this is when the computer usually crashes the most. You get that.

When doing everything yourself, you have complete artistic freedom, and are responsible for every beat, every note. It's a lot of fun and (when things go right) very gratifying, but it is also very important to self-regulate and be honest with yourself when it comes to what is working and what is not working when it comes to the individual parts. For a song or piece of music to reach its maximum potential, function must balance with form, virtuosity must balance with accessibility. Quite often, my original idea, imagined as the mainstay of the piece, will wind up as a contributing part in the bigger picture that emerges as the track takes shape. Every tune is different, and each has its unique creative process as it comes into being. There are no set rules for this, so keeping an open mind to change and improvement is of the essence. The song comes first. I have written songs that have no featured guitar solo because the song didn't need it, and wound up with a great song as a result. I didn't lose a solo - I gained a great song.

Of course, when you are writing and recording rock music for a rock band to perform, you had better have a fair idea of how all the instruments work. You can program most instruments that you can't play, but there are a few that just don't quite cut it as samples. I play most of the parts on most of my demos and releases, with the exception of drums. Firstly, I suck at drums. Can't play 'em. Secondly, drums are loud and require more space than I have. Therefore, I have studied a great many drummers, and even got drummers to write out feels and fills so that I knew exactly how they were played. Getting programmed drums to sound good is a separate blog unto itself, but suffice it to say that it is worth the attention to detail if you are serious about programming drums (or any instrument, really) for a commercial release. I have become a fairly passable bass player, and have enough keyboard chops to get the job done, although more complex parts are usually programmed with the same attention to detail as the drum parts. Please note - Getting friends in to play parts is usually the best option when possible, but this blog is about flying solo, so I'm concentrating on flying solo here.

The best way to master the DIY approach to writing and recording is to dive in, make mistakes, learn about the process and about yourself. Don't get too set in your ideas until you find things that really work for you, and even then, be ready to accept change if a better method or idea presents itself. When I was mixing and mastering our last two EPs, I spent a lot of time online reading about various engineers' approaches to the all-important art of finalising a recording project. I learned a lot, and it improved me as a musician, recording engineer, mixing engineer and mastering engineer. There are still many things I have to master (see what I did there?) about this, but my results have been pleasing, and I'm happy with what I've done. There is a lot to consider when going it alone through the writing/recording process, and it may or may not be for you, but there's one way to find out. If you find that it's your thing, it can be very rewarding.


Goofing it up with Jim Awram in the studio, 2013

Friday, 7 February 2014

Jac Dalton For Your Love Offical Video

A song from the first album I did with Jac Dalton. The album is Icarus, the song For Your Love.
Video produced and filmed in Adelaide, South Australia.

Monday, 13 January 2014

The Game of Rise And Fall

Taken from the Resonance Project facebook page:

Rise And Fall was a 'game song', where I would attempt to write a particular sort of song with a semi-fixed set of elements. I didn't seem to write many fast riffs, so I decided that this song would have a sixteenth-note riff, possibly harmonised. I also decided to leave room in the verses and put some gaps in the music for the vocal - whatever it turned out to be - to stand alone for a moment. Thirdly, I would have the verses in a minor key, then modulate to the relative major for the chorus while not completely giving in to the cloying sweetness of the major third (this thought made perfect sense to me at the time). With this box of tricks, I set out to see what would happen.

The main pedal tone guitar riff came together in sections quite quickly once I'd jammed around a bit and established a vibe. A bit more 'Euro' than some of my stuff, and once I started tracking guitars, I heard where the harmonies needed to happen. As well as being a 'game' song, it was a 'blurt' song - the verses happened and joined themselves to the riffs seamlessly, and I happened across the chorus changes right after, so it was almost a rush to commit things to memory or disc before the next section bloomed. I got the ideas down, and it was fine just like that. Fun game!
Donna pretty much did the same thing with the lyric and vocal arrangement, was ready to go and before we knew it... had to fly out to India to do some fancy corporate show. She returned quite ill with some serious fluid on her lungs, but was determined to "get 'er done", and managed to belt out a vocal that to this day stands up, unenhanced. The recording was good enough to put on a demo EP that we released, and Donna simply had to repeat the performance when we re-recorded for the Tale Goes On EP. The new version - recorded at a slightly faster tempo - allowed us to hone our parts, and make it just right. There's a balance that needs to be achieved when recording, where the performance is known intimately, yet executed with spontaneity and passion. When you can play a piece enough times to have it known on a cellular level, yet still find joy and freshness in the music, magic happens. Or at the very least, you have a REALLY GOOD TIME.

I had borrowed the famous Ormsby Shark guitar around the time of recording, and used it to double my trusty GG6 on some of the riffing and chorus parts. I think this might have been the Shark's debut release, now that I think about it. One noticeable similarity between the lead vocal recordings is that both times, the singer was up against a health issue, but kicked it to the curb for the song. Donna had been diagnosed with MS before approaching the vocal session, and did the song - and herself - proud, even spontaneously nailing a line that we had previously agreed she wouldn't attempt. Smartass. As she sings in the song; "Don't give up, don't look back..."

Rise And Fall was written around the same time as Kings & Queens and Behind The Dreamer's Veil, so I tend to mentally group them together as the songs we wrote when we started to establish Resonance Project's musical identity. With Tale Goes On and the songs within, I feel we validate that identity.


Sunday, 12 January 2014

Remember to Recycle

Taken from the Resonance Project facebook page:

Back in the mid-eighties, I was playing in a band called Flash Harry. Our repertoire was mainly covers, but we wrote some songs that we played in the live set and we even tried recording a few. One of the songs I wrote for the band was a little number called "In The City", and it featured a catchy guitar riff that stuck in my memory long after the original song was dropped and lost to the winds of time. I was still finding my way as a composer/songwriter, and there were many songs that were discarded or rehashed as I developed. Every now and then, the riff would pop into my head and I'd play it a few times, thinking, "Should do something with that one day..."

Around 2008, Resonance Project was formed for our tour to Viet Nam and I was going through a burst of creativity. The vocal tracks from my solo albums had formed the basis of the Resonance Project set, and it was time for new blood. Three songs came out of this period in relatively short order, and it was during one of these writing sessions that I remembered that riff from that Flash Harry song. I started noodling around with it, and before long had added a couple of extra phrases and tweaked some existing ones, and voila- new riffage, new song. The new chords and arrangement were nothing like the old song, and I had fun discovering where my new riff would lead. Some tasty keyboard parts were added to punctuate the guitar-driven backing, and I thought I was on to something. It felt pretty good and - as usually happens with the 'good ones' - it came together quickly, like it knew where it was going and just needed me to get out of the way. Boom. Time for the singing.

With a lot of our songs, Donna will flesh out most of a lyric and melody and then we will fine tune it together, making sure the words are just right and the melody and phrasing are where we want them. Donna has a natural feel for what is right, so quite often I'll just suggest alternatives for a word or line until Donna says "that's it". Sometimes we will both contribute lyrics and melodic ideas, and sometimes (as was the case with The Dreamed) Donna's part will spring forth fully formed, and all we have to do is hit the record button. With this song, things worked a little differently. We sat with the backing track and came up with melodies and phrases but no words, so there was a lot of "la la laaa - da de daa dum" going on. It was actually quite fun, because it was like we were writing an additional solo instrument that sat in all the important parts of the song and carried the hooks. Words and lines began to form from the phrases, and once the roll started, we were minutes away from completion, with a cool story in the verses and a killer chorus with clever supporting harmonies. I still groove when I hear this song, and it's one of my personal favourites to play and listen to. There's no real guitar solo to speak of - the song didn't need one - but the guitar parts are a lot of fun to play, and there's quite enough to get right as there is, thank you.

From a mid-eighties pub rock song to millennium melodic metal - that's how "In The City" became "Kings & Queens".



Thursday, 2 January 2014

Graham Greene - Lord of Misrule EP Promo

My new EP will be out soon on iTunes, CD Baby, Amazon and Google Music. Here's a taste.